Jun 04 2007
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My 12 year old daughter and I have just moved from a large city where we lived for 7 years, to a small town about 30 miles from the city in the UK I decided to do this because my child’s new secondary school was seriously failing her - after an excellant primary school experience. And I thought I was doing right by getting her out of the city.
However, we are now both feeling extremes of disorientation and displacement. My girl desperately misses her frineds from the city of whom she had many. We are both feeling extremely lonely and lost. Life feels surreal and wierd and neither of us are taking to this new place very well. In fact when I’ve been out to the town I just want to return home very quickly and then when I get back I feel where am I?
Those people that we’ve met are very different types to those we knew in the city, quite middle-class, very nice. There’s a dearth of single parents. There’s almost nothing going on yet everybody knows everybody else.
I am thinking I’ve made a huge mistake and I feel terrible to see my daughter so unhappy. Although we’ve together moved homes before, it’s never been as hard and difficult as this.
I just don’t know what to do.
Can you help?
Warm wishes
Suzan
Hi Suzan,
I’m sorry to hear things have been so difficult for you and your daughter. There’s several factors that may be affecting you.
First let’s look at your move to the new location. The vibration of the new place looks filled with light and the people look heart centered. The place you’ve left looks darker (as in dense and lower vibrations). I think you’re used to hiding yourselves in the old place while in the new place you might be feeling overexposed (i.e. too vulnerable). When your vibrations have calibrated to the new place (trust is a big component here) I don’t see any problems with you being a single parent in the community of married folks. They look like they all help each other out as a community. Overall I think you made a good choice. Getting used to the slower pace and simpler life style may take some creativity on the part of both of you.
The second factor has to do with your daughter. At age 12 (sometimes 13 or 14) kids leave the safety of their parent’s spiritual alignment and enter their own. This activates their own karma, soul tasks and purpose. I believe that your daughter is going through this now and that this is the cause of the disorientation for both of you. Imagine that she has a line of energy from her head that used to connect to a line that ran from the top of your head. That was how she was protected as a child. Now her crown energy is beginning to connect directly to her Soul and Creator Source.
This information may help both of you during this process (even if you are the only one who reads this), but if the disorientation doesn’t pass shortly then a distance energy healing session would help. In the healing session, any negative karma lurking in your daughter’s spiritual alignment would get cleared out. (Makes for a much nicer teenager transition). There’s some past issues for you with your mom at this same age that your daughter currently is which would also clear and release.
blessings,
gia
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